The Way Of A Wicked Woman
Proverb 31:12, “She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.”
There is a sore evil under the sun that I have sun. Solomon often used that phrase in the Old Testament. Well, I have also seen a sore evil. I have seen this again and again and it is evil to the core.
Some women get married and then don't do their duties as a mother and a wife. While the husband is at work paying the bills, the wife gets into mischief (whether it be gossiping on the phone, flirting with other men, being lazy, not cleaning the house, hiding the mail, criticizing her husband, spending money they don't have, et cetera).
That wife is a dead weight in her husband's life. She drags him down. When he had a zeal for God and wanted to do right, she quenched his fire for God by complaining that he went somewhere with out her, or she nags that he bought something instead of letting her buy something, or she whines about their apartment or is unhappy with the small size of her home. She makes his life more difficult. Instead of being a Biblical HELP MEET (Genesis 2:18), she is a nuisance and a burden to him.
Year-after-year the husband tries to do the right thing, while his wife doesn't care. While he's trying to carry the heavy load of being a father and a husband, she's placing bricks on top of the load, making it more difficult for him. While he's at work, she's watching TV. While he's getting dirty on the job, her house stays dirty because she won't clean it. While he's eating out of a vending machine because she never cares to make him a nice lunch, she eats well at home (with money that he earned to support her). While he's working graveyard shift to support the family, she's at home sleeping normal hours. While he's having a hard time at work with unsaved heathens, she waits until he gets home to continue giving him a hard time.
Time-after-time she abandons ship and leaves him, but he never once leaves her. Time-after-time she drag people into their marriage, who ought to mind their own business; but he never drags anybody into the marriage. Time-after-time she embarrasses him in public, slanders him on the phone, spreads gossip about him, sows discord between him and his friends, screams and yells at him in front of the neighbors; yet he tolerates her because he knows that it's all a part of the sinful nature.
Then after decades of living in a one-way marriage of give-and-take, the husband messes up. Maybe it's a horrible sin, or a foolish and unwise decision. And then the wife files for divorce and demonizes the husband, blaming him for everything as if it was his fault all along. She seeks out support from feminists, a greedy lawyer, apostate ministers, and anybody who will agree with her sinful decision to divorce her husband. Boy, he messed up, he is evil, evil, evil.
I can't think of anything more wicked. I'm not justifying a husband who sins or messes up; I am addressing the hypocritical women who waits until the timing is right and then, after years of being a burden and causing much grief for her husband, she throws in the towel and walks away as if she's an innocent victim of a terrible husband. That's makes you a liar and a quitter. Jesus said only a hard heart brings divorce (Matthew 19:8). This wicked generation seeks excuses to justify every sin imaginable, from nuking innocent islanders to abortion, drunkenness, sensual dancing, homosexuality and divorce.
God sees the truth and knows. 1st Samuel 2:3, “Talk no more so exceeding proudly; let not arrogancy come out of your mouth: for the LORD is a God of knowledge, and by him actions are weighed.” I love that Scripture. The Bible says, “Shut up! God knows what's really going on. You can't fool God! God will judge all mankind.” God knows our true intentions in every matter, whether we are sincere or if there is a selfish reason. Proverb 24:12, “If thou sayest, Behold, we knew it not; doth not he that pondereth the heart consider it? and he that keepeth thy soul, doth not he know it? and shall not he render to every man according to his works?”
If you've already put a knife in your husband's back, this article is not for you. No doubt you've already condemned me for speaking the truth of God's Word. I wrote this article to most of you ladies who are still married. Please don't divorce. Whether you feel that you have been a good wife or a bad wife, please don't abandon your loved one. It's more than honoring your marriage vows to your spouse and God on your wedding day.
It's loving Jesus Christ enough to remain loyal to your spouse. Did you hear what I said? It's a matter of whether or not your love Jesus Christ more than yourself. 2nd Timothy 3:1 foretold of the Last Days when people would love only themselves. We are living in these wicked times of apostasy.
2nd Timothy 3:1-5, “This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.”
The way of a wicked woman is to divorce the husband of her youth (your first husband). Jeremiah 3:20, “Surely as a wife treacherously departeth from her husband, so have ye dealt treacherously with me, O house of Israel, saith the LORD.” You are treacherous if you file for divorce. I don't care what your husband has done to you, or what evil he may have caused or did. The Bible warns not to depart from your spouse. That goes for men as well (Malachi 2:16).
If you feel that you need to leave, then do so, but never divorce. 1sy Corinthians 7:10 says not to depart (divorce), but if you do, God commands you never to remarry. If you do, you're an adulterer (Matthew 5:32). The way of a wicked woman is to divorce and then shack-up, living in adultery after quitting her marriage. TENS-OF-MILLIONS of Americans are shacking-up instead of getting married, because of the Godless courts which have perverted justice, equity and truth. Men are terrified to remarry, and women are too vicious to stay with a man anymore. Feminism is cutthroat!
The Dangerous Rise of Sexual Politics
This can all be avoided if women would just be faithful to their marriage vows and stay married. I don't care if you and your husband live separately, work separately and go to separate churches... STAY MARRIED! Whether you like it or not, it is God's way. This selfish idea that God didn't intend for us to be unhappy, so if you're unhappy divorce and move onto greener pastures. You're a selfish jerk if you do that. I'm talking to the jerk who leaves their spouse in tears of agony and loneliness, because you condemned them in their sins and faults. You're so perfect aren't you? If I've rung your bell, good, I hope the shoe fits well. I'm say, don't abandon your spouse! Don't quit!
The Criminal Racket Of Divorce
Listen to me, there are HUNDREDS of excuses to justify divorcing your spouse if you're looking for them. According to law, a divorce should not take place unless there is justifiable cause. The courts are so crooked these days that they've come up with a scam called “Irreconcilable differences.” When you file for divorce ladies, the first thing your lawyer is going to do is ask you for all the dirt on your husband. If he as much as called you a name, your lawyer is going to have the judge summons your husband to court as a criminal. Your husband is going to be served a summons to divorce court by a U.S. Marshall. Lawyers go for the jugular vein in any court case.
What the crooked judge and greedy lawyers really want is a no fault. They know that in many cases that a husband doesn't want a divorce and refuses to sing the divorce agreement. So what they do is threaten him that if he doesn't agree to “Irreconcilable Differences,” then they go after him under criminal law. Either way the wife is going to get her divorce. Lawyers threaten to take away a father's children if he refuses to sign, saying that the judge is a lesbian and will take the wife's side. Lawyers are liars and will say anything to scare, force or coerce you to do what the judge wants done. Your lawyer has no loyalty to you, only to the court.
U.S. courts are feminist influenced, biased against fathers and husbands, and are evil to the core. For any wife to drag her husband into a heathen court of law is the epitome of evil. For a so-called Christian wife to drag her husband into court is to destroy her life's ministry, for God created the woman to be a HELP MEET to her husband. God created man to do his work. God created the woman for the man. If you destroy what's left of your marriage you have flushed your ministry down the toilet. If you remarry, you are living AWOL (absent without leave).
Why God Hates Divorce
Although God will forgive you for the sin of divorce if you seek it, the consequences of your evil will irreversibly hurt the family for a lifetime. The damage cannot be undone. The lives destroyed cannot be rebuilt. The hatred and bitterness caused by a divorce often lasts for decades and until the grave. No wonder God hates divorce so much; it is a sin that perpetuates for a lifetime.
I know what really makes God angry are the marriage-meddlers who are quick to destroy other couple's marriages and families—either because they've ruined their own and misery loves company, or because they're self righteousness hypocrites judging things that they don't fully understand, or they're just plain evil. They think they're helping a wife and doing a good thing; but in reality they are destroying a husband and forcing the children to pay for the sin of divorce.
The serpent came along in the Garden of Eden and deceived Eve into eating the forbidden fruit, and in so doing she ruined the lives of Adam and her children. The same is true with the forbidden fruit of divorce. It will ruin the lives of your family, while the serpents merrily go their way without a care in life. What do they care if they destroy YOUR marriage? What do they lose if they ruin YOUR marriage? What does it cost them? Nothing!
Don't be a fool. Don't make the lawyers richer. Don't give the New World Order more ammunition of another broken family. Nearly every woman who divorces her husband has a list of his faults that she uses in an attempt to justify her evil decision to break her marriage vows. And since there's a bunch of idiots like her who've also quit their marriages, fools are never in need of more fools for companionship. It's called feminism.
The Bible says concerning a godly woman in Proverb 31:12, “She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.” If you don't like my preaching, then get mad at God because He said it. A godly woman will do her husband good, and not evil, all the days of her life. Divorce is an evil of evils. In fact, next to murdering your spouse it's the worse thing you can ever do to hurt them. In many cases divorce is much worse than death, and preferred by the victim of a divorce. There is no heart's pain in this world any worse than being abandoned by the wife or husband of one's youth.
I could just as easily have applied this truth to women, but there is a big difference. Women find a lot more emotional support, shelters and sympathy in a failing marriage than men do. For that reason, and because women file for divorce at more than twice the rate of men, I reach out primarily to women. My heart's intention is pure before God. I hope to prevent some divorces. Please don't do it. Don't murder your marriage because it's less than perfect.
You know, that's exactly what divorce is, you're murdering your marriage. You might as well take a gun and pull the trigger on your spouse when you file for divorce. If divorce is a light or trifle matter to you, it is only because you have no loyalty nor fear of God before your eyes. Most people don't (Romans 3:18-19).
Listen to me carefully you Christian wives. Couple's descend into the abyss of life's problems together in a marriage, but when one receives what seems like a helping hand out of the pit, and leaves the other spouse to drown in the miseries and burdens of life by filing for divorce... no wonder divorce is the number one cause of suicide amongst men!!! If you abandon your spouse and leave him to drown in his burdens, afflictions and heartaches in life, you're exactly like Satan.
Please don't follow the way of a wicked woman!