The Curse Of Meddling Mother In Laws

By David J. Stewart

“For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife.” —Mark 10:7

       One of the main causes of divorce today in America and destroyed marriages is meddling mother-in-laws. Mother-in-laws mean well, but many of them are just plain mean. The Bible says “for this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife.”

The word “cleave” in the Greek means “glued.” It means when a man and a woman are married they are “glued” together like plywood layer-by-layer which can only be taken apart by destroying it. If you try to take plywood apart you’re going to destroy it completely. Plywood is made by taking sawdust and glue, layer-by-layer, with heat and pressure, putting it together. Marriages are built over the decades by the pressures of life, children being born, and the heat of arguments—it’s all a part of the process of being married. When you try to separate that marriage years later, you’re going to utterly, completely and irreparably destroy everything! And that’s exactly what’s going on all across America today. Sadly, meddling in-laws are one of the leading causes of divorce.

Everywhere we turn nowadays, divorces are falling apart. The cutthroat newsmedia are a bunch of malicious, conniving, hypocritical, hateful, vultures seeking their next victim. The mainstream newsmedia are like Black Widow spiders seeking their next victim who become trapped in their web. When a struggling young married couple has problems, and you’ve got a meddling mother-in-law, only havoc can result. It’s an accident waiting to happen. Mamas need to leave their married children be, to struggle on their own, or else they’ll never learn how to handle the pressures of life. Mother-in-laws mean well, but they do far more damage than good by tampering with a marriage that IS NOT THEIRS. Mind your own marriage ladies, and leave your children to mind theirs. If you play God you're going to destroy things.

Are You An Unknowing Feminist?

We all know that there are hardcore rebellious feminists today who have completely forgotten God. No feminist is right with God. It is absolutely impossible, for feminism is rebellion against God-ordained masculine authority in the marriage, home, Church and society. 1st Samuel 15:23 equates the sin of rebellion with the sin of witchcraft. Men are to be in charge!

The Bible is 100% against women cops, women combat soldiers and women performing men's jobs. In so doing, such women are forced to take on a man's disposition, Consequently, feminists working in men's jobs must prove themselves, and are thus often unkind, abusive and unable to naturally cope as well as men. They have to prove that they can do the job. This is why you'll never see two women cops alone (very rare). Neither will you see one woman cop alone (not as rare, but uncommon). It's usually one man and one woman. Almost always a women cannot function without the assistance of a man, and her position solely exists only by political correctness. America is not reality! In the real world, women are weak, vulnerable and not cunning warriors as are men. Women are big babies. I say this not to be mean nor unkind; but rather, to uphold the teaching in the Scriptures that a woman's place is in the home.

Did you know that you don't have to be a committed feminist to have some feminist thinking in your mind? You may not even realize that you're largely feminist in your thinking and attitude. Most Americans don't realize that our nation is largely Communist today. Most U.S. citizens would never think of our free society as being “Communist.” But are we really free anymore? Would you consider NDAA (passed into law December 31, 2011), which gives the government power to make you disappear without a right to trial nor attorney, freedom? Are we really free in a nation that denies children the teachings of the Bible and prayer in our schools? Is there freedom for the 53,000,000 aborted Human beings in the womb? Is there freedom when the government takes all of our manufacturing jobs and sends them overseas? Free? I think not. Criminals rule over our nation. Free? We are a Communist nation!!! We just haven't figured it out yet, but you will.

Likewise, many women (including Professed Christians) would never consider themselves as being a feminist, but they are very much so, having been indoctrinated and influenced by Satan unknowingly. Feminist ideologies are propagated by television, in magazines, books, on the news, radio and all over the internet.

Feminism is a disease of society, the rot of any culture, the underlying foundation of the abortion industry. Feminism is evil in the sight of God. 1st Timothy 5:14-15 teaches that a woman's place is in the home.

The Curse Of Meddling Mother-In-Laws

Most of the time it's sinful mothers who tamper in their daughter's marriage. And sadly, oftentimes those daughters were raised to be spoiled brats by a pampering father and vain mother. I don't expect many people to listen to me, but I hope you'll at least listen to God. A godly parent is going to honor the Bible by viewing their son-in-law or daughter-in-law as their own child. In effect, you should view your married child and their spouse as one. God sees them as one, and so should you. When you take sides, you're splitting them apart even more than they already are.

The Bible says in Mark 10:7, “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife.” Did you read that? The Greek word for “cleave” means “glued.” Literally, in God’s eyes two people are glued for life at marriage. I don’t care if you get married in city hall, at the bottom of the ocean, on the moon, or in a Church—marriages between one man and one woman are made in Heaven. Gay marriages are made in Hell, which is where homosexuals are going (1st Corinthians 6:9-10).

A husband and wife are glued together at marriage in God’s eyes. The Bible says “for this cause”—for what cause?—so they can be glued to each other. That means mamas go home! That means mamas are NOT part of the marriage! That means fathers mind your own business, it not your concern anymore! If you disagree, then you are going against the holy God of the Scriptures who said a husband and wife are to LEAVE mom and dad to be glued to their spouse instead.

A Tragic Destroyed Family In Tennessee

In May of 2012 a tragic story made headlines in Tennessee after a disgruntled husband killed his wife and oldest daughter, allegedly kidnapping the two youngest girls. Speculation is still circulating as to whether the two girls are his biological daughters (likely they are which means he’s not a kidnapper). I always hate when the newsmedia call a parent a kidnapper. No, the newsmedia are hateful jerks trying to demonize parents (usually the father)—anything to make a story more juicer for the bloodthirsty public. People are so far away from God these days that they get a thrill out of watching others suffer. People love to see the calamity of others, until it happens to YOU. Americans are hypocrites!

No one really knows the full situation of what happened in Tennessee. The American newsmedia are the most irresponsible group of people in the world—always demonizing their victims—painting half the picture—swaying public opinion toward the suspicious, guilty until proven innocent and utterly disgusting—the worst, sickest, most evil news sells!

Control Freak?

I am not defending the actions of the young man in Tennessee who murdered his loved ones (and they were his loved ones). I am fully convinced that the mother-in-law was a large contributor to what happened. After the deaths, the mother-in-law went of national television to demonize her son-in-law, labeling him as a “control freak,” saying that even at the age of ten he controlled his mother and abused her. I’ll tell you right now that if there’s any truth to that claim—his mama didn’t discipline him as she should have. The Bible teaches in Proverbs 22:6, “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Proverb 29:15, “The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.” Spank that brat of yours. That's why God put that padded area back there.

Notice that the reproach of shame comes upon the MOTHER, and not the father. This is because the mother is the head of the family (1st Timothy 5:14). The Bible says the husband is the head of the wife (Ephesians 5:23), not the home. The father is in charge of the home, but the mother guides the home; she sets the course in which the family marches. That is her job as a mother and wife.

Getting back to the tragic situation in Tennessee, the man’s mother-in-law demonized him as a control freak, accusing the man of not permitting his wife to speak with relatives (more like HER). If this obese woman filled with hatred was willing to go on national television spewing out hatred for her son-in-law after he shot himself and his wife and oldest daughter, it tells me that there were issues between her and her son-in-law prior to all this mess. It’s epidemic in America today. Meddling mother-in-laws is one of the primary causes of divorce and family problems. Mamas don’t want to let their children become adults. Mamas don’t want to cut the umbilical cord.

Let me tell you something, you mamas need to let go! If you don’t like what I’m saying, then it just proves that you’re a meddling fool that’s going to destroy your child’s marriage. I don’t care if you’re the mother or father of a son or daughter—you cut the umbilical cord and let your child live the life that God intended for them to live. No marriage is perfect and a meddling in-law is a certain recipe for disaster!

Children Don't Receive 5-Minutes Training On How To Be A Parent Or Spouse

Most American women today are a pathetic tragedy and ruin, many having killed their own babies by abortion, others having ruined their marriage by divorce —all because not even 5-minutes of preparation on how to be a mother or wife was invested into that child while growing up. Preparation is the key to success. American society doesn’t place the slightest emphasis on preparing children to become parents and married. Instead, children and teens are infatuated and saturated with immoral sex, ROCK’N’ROLL music, sensual clothing, homosexual Hollywood, rebellion, Walt Disney’s prostitution training, cellphone gossip, and despising their parents. 2nd Timothy 3:1-5 could never be more timely and accurate than to describe this wicked generation of spoiled brats we’ve raised in America today!!!

Public schools are only concerned with preparing children to slave in a workplace for their rest of their lives, thinking that their highest patriotic duty is to vote (the reality of which is that our entire voting system is rigged, allowing the corrupt Supreme Court to steal Presidential elections, as in the 2000 election between Bush Jr. and Gore. Bush Jr. was bragging on an airplane, on video camera, that he had won long before the election was over. Florida was the determining state, of which coincidentally Bush’s brother, Jeb, was then governor. Talk about evil. Search the web under “ChoicePoint rigged election.” Public schools are producing mindless minions of the now defunct U.S. government.

Shame On Negligent Mothers

Proverb 29:15, “The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.” The worst form of child abuse is to let a child go undisciplined and uncharactered. Any mama who allows her 10-year-old son to control her just may be raising the next John Wayne Gacy or Barack Obama [and don’t kid yourself, Mr. Barry Sottero (Obama’s real name) is a very evil man]. His mother and father have nothing to be proud of. Have you read the recent NDAA law President Obama signed on December 31, 2011? It gives the U.S. Government permission to make any American citizen disappear without a right to legal trial nor attorney. That’s scary my friend!

John Wayne Gacy raped and murdered 33 young men in Gary, Indiana decades ago; President’s George W. Bush and Barack Obama have murdered over 1.4 million in Iraq and Afghanistan since 2002. Who’s the greater threat to our nation? We’d be better off with 1,000 John Gacys and Jeffrey Dahmers than to have one more George W. Bush or Barack Obama! Think about it! I’m not advocating lunatic homosexual mass-murderers on the streets of America! I’m exposing lunatic homosexual mass-murders in the White House destroying our country.

On May 9, 2012 Barack Obama told ABC News today (May 9, 2012) that he supports same-sex marriage, saying that he believes same-sex couples should be able to marry. “I've just concluded that for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same-sex couples should be able to get married,” Obama told ABC News' Robin Roberts. What a wicked President! God's opinion hasn't changed. It doesn't matter what we think, “personally.” All that matters is what God says in His Word. Romans chapter one plainly exposes the sin of homosexuality as being abnormal and the bottom of the descent into evil.

The Hateful And Malicious Newsmedia

American society has gone insane! Anytime a crime happens, the malicious and bloodthirsty newsmedia swarm in, interviewing anybody they can find in the sewer of hate, vindication or gossip. They approach distant relatives, neighbors, coworkers, fellow church members, trying to make a story where oftentimes there is none (or they greatly over exaggerate the situation, thus scaring that family for generations to come).

The truth is that most of the primary figures in the mainstream newsmedia today should be sentenced to prison for malicious and destructive behavior. Anyone who deliberately promotes lies and disinformation as a career deserves to go to prison for a long time. The newsmedia are hurting innocent people by spreading lies and deceit. It’s a big laughable joke to most of them, while they sip champagne and eat lobster on frequent ocean cruises and luxury vacations at the expense of American families. Hell will be hot enough! We need some rain in America… 40-days of it!!!

The Bible says in Mark 10:7, “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife.” Did you read that? The Greek word for “cleave” means “glued.” Literally, in God’s eyes two people are glued for life at marriage. I don’t care if you get married in city hall, at the bottom of the ocean, on the moon, or in a Church—marriages between one man and one woman are made in Heaven. Gay marriages are made in Hell, which is where homosexuals are going (1st Corinthians 6:9-10).

A husband and wife are glued together at marriage in God’s eyes. The Bible says “for this cause”—for what cause?—so they can be glued to each other. That means mamas go home! That means mamas are NOT part of the marriage! That means fathers mind your own business, it not your concern anymore! If you disagree, then you are going against the holy God of the Scriptures who said a husband and wife are to LEAVE mom and dad to be glued to their spouse instead.

Laying The Axe To The Root Of The Problem

Do you know what is wrong with society today? We've forsaken God. Exodus 21:16, “And he that stealeth a man, and selleth him, or if he be found in his hand, he shall surely be put to death.”

People are incredibly brilliant creatures created by God. Did you know that only human beings can cry? That's right, animals do not have the ability to cry. Did you know that there are more people alive on the earth today than have died throughout all of history? It's true my friend!

America is going to Hell today because of meddling in-laws who are interfering with their children’s marriage. God created men to lead, dominate and take control. It is a natural defense for a young man to shelter his wife from meddling in-laws. The angry mother-in-law on television was attacking her son-in-law, even accusing him of being controlling at age ten. Like I said, if that’s true, it is his mother’s fault for not disciplining her boy. Once they become teenagers it’s too late. Then you’ve got a bum, punk, rebel on your hands that you raised a spoiled brat and now you don’t know what to do except call 911 so they either shoot your son or put your daughter into a juvenile home. Shame on mamas! God gave you the Bible to teach you and guide you… USE IT!!!!

Albeit, it is natural for a husband to attempt to shelter his wife and marriage from a meddling mother-in-law. Our American, insane, perverted, feminist, humanist, heathen society today calls this “domestic abuse.” The Bible teaches in Genesis 3:16 that a husband is to “RULE OVER” his wife. Obviously, man’s laws are not in agreement with God’s Laws. God is against the U.S. Supreme Court on allowing abortion. God is against the New York state Supreme Court on allowing same-sex marriage. God is against the U.S. Supreme Court for banning the Word of God from the schools. God is against anyone who goes against His Words!!! The Bible teaches that a husband has a right to control his marriage and family, but this wicked world labels that as being a “control freak.” There are many feminists and rebels today who consider God a control freak as well.

God wants to control every single aspect of your life. If that’s not the definition of a control freak, then what is? The following is quoted from an article titled, “How To Deal With A Control Freak,” written by Judith Orloff, a psychiatrist at UCLA…


If you answer “yes” to 1-2 questions, it’s likely you’re dealing with a controller. Responding “yes” to 3 or more questions suggests that a controller is violating our emotional freedom.

*Note: Dr. Judith Orloff has been featured on CNN, The Today Show, Oprah Magazine and

Every one of these indications of a controller is true about God. If you try to obey the Bible, diligently, you’re going to feel smothered and a lack of fun. James 4:8-9 says if you want to draw nigh unto God, “Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness.” It just makes you want to run right out and become a Christian doesn’t it?

Dr. Orloff goes on to state...

People who feel out of control tend to become controllers. Deep down, they’re afraid of falling apart, so they micromanage to bind anxiety.

God is 100% intolerant of what you think, or what you want to do, or what you feel if you’re violating His Commandments and Laws. For example: homosexuality. There is no place for gays in God’s kingdom, you’re not welcome if you’re a homosexual. God will cast you into the Fires of Hell forever if you die in your sins. Is God a controller? God’s in control of the universe, thankfully, whether you like it or not! I’m glad that God is a holy God, a good God, a fair God, a just God, a righteous God, the only true and living God, the God of the King James Bible, and a forgiving God full of grace and mercy!!! There is none like unto God, our Savior and Redeemer!

I say again to all you meddling mamas—get out of dodge, mind your own business, SHUT UP!!! You’ve done enough damage already. You must give account to God one day for the damage that you cause, and God will not spare His wrath upon you. If you think that being a Christian exempts you from God’s wrath, you’d better read 2nd Corinthians 5:11 about the “terror of the Lord.” In Psalm 6:1 David pleaded for God not to chasten Him in “Thy hot displeasure.” God gets really hot and angry!

You be there if your child or son-in-law or daughter-in-law needs help; but you HELP THEM AS ONE! You recognize them as a team, as one entity, as being paired together by God for life. DO NOT take sides! Even if your son-in-law is obviously in the wrong, you have no right to get involved, take sides, and destroy their marriage. You will ruin their marriage, because it is already weak to begin with. Most marriages are broken apart during a time of WEAKNESS because of some interference (meddling third party) outside influence. If you cannot do that because your personal parental instinct is too strong and you’re going to be biased, then go jump off a bridge if you must, but STAY OUT OF YOUR CHILD’S MARRIAGE!!!

When a young couple gets married, they ought to move away from parents and in-laws. The WORST thing you’ll ever do is move in with your parents or in-laws. There are exceptions to the rule. In rare circumstances, such situations work out, even beneficial during rough times. Albeit, you’re asking for troubles! God’s way is for a man to LEAVE his parents. There can only be ONE man in any household without their being conflicts. Someone has got to be in charge. If a man decides to lives under his father’s roof, then his father’s still in charge (because it’s his roof).

The same is true of living under an in-laws roof. If you want to be in control, then you need to provide and pay for your own roof over your head and food on the table. A man is not truly an adult until he can provide for himself and his family. If you have to rake leaves, shovel snow, paint picket fences and house walls, clean garages, or collect tin cans—you find an HONEST way to provide for your family. NEVER compromise your convictions nor morals for money. I’d starve first! You’d be shocked how many parents prostitute out their own daughters for money in this wicked world. It’s a way of life in Brazil and Costa Rica where prostitution is legal and considered a stable of their economy. It’s unimaginable, but a reality in this wicked world, and always has been since the beginning of mankind.

Sexual immorality is not new. The Civil War era was so immoral that 25% of the southern Confederate Army had venereal disease! Prostitution was legalized in Tennessee by the military during the Civil War, where doctors could oversee the immoral activities to preserve the health of the soldiers and prostitutes. The law was disbanded after the war. It was just as wicked back then as today, but they didn’t have the technologies that men do today to go further down the road of sin. Video has made pornography a hundred-billion-dollar racket worldwide. So whatever you do, keep it moral and pleasing to God. That goes for all of us!!!

I cannot judge the family in Tennessee because I don’t know all the details. But I find it hard to believe that the man who shot his wife and oldest daughter (and then himself) was just bad, evil and a control freak. There’s always two sides to every story and then there’s the truth. The newsmedia has demonized the young man and whitewashed the women involved. I know that’s not the whole truth. The young woman married the man and had children with him, so he must have been a nice guy at some point. From hearing on a television interview the hatred and contempt which the mother-in-law has for her dead son-in-law, it’s obvious that they were at war before any of this happened.

All across America, wives are still holding onto their mama’s aprons. Let go! All across America today mother-in-laws are at war with their son-in-laws, and son-in-laws are at war with their mother-in-laws. The Bible plainly teaches “for this cause shall a man leave his mother and father that he may cleave to his own wife.” The Bible says they become ONE FLESH in the eyes of God. As I mentioned earlier, the Greek word for “cleave” in the Bible means “glued.” A husband and wife are glued together in God’s eyes the moment they are married. It is a sin for a mother and a father to interfere in the marriage of their children. The Bible says for this cause—for what cause?—for the clause that a man may be glued to his wife; and for the cause that a wife may be glued to her husband.

When a mother or father, or in-laws, meddle in the marriage of their son or daughter-in-law, they are disrespecting and rebelling against the Words of God. The Bible is teaching us this principle for a reason. A husband and wife become as ONE in God’s eyes. That means it’s no longer mom and dad’s business what goes on in the life of their child. Caring is expected, but tampering is forbidden by God.

Do you know why grandparents often make better parents? It’s because they learned from their mistakes the first-go-around with their own children. The worst thing you can do is always baby your child, always pick them up when they topple over as a baby, never allow them to learn to fall and get back up on their own. By continually picking them up, you’re teaching them to always look for someone to pick them up when they fall. A baby needs to fall down and perhaps even skin their knee a little. I’m not saying to purposely allow them to get hurt. I’m just saying that a child needs to learn how to cope with difficulties, challenges and problems without always looking for mama.

Missionaries are taught not to meet all the needs of the people they’re trying to evangelize and mentor in the Lord. The worst thing you can do as a missionary is to meet all someone’s needs, because when you’re gone they’ll fall by the wayside, never having learned to trust God. We all need to learn to trust God. Deuteronomy 8:3 tells us that God deliberately allowed the Jews in the Wilderness to go hungry before feeding them with manna from Heaven. They were so hungry that they wanted to go back to Egypt, and they complained to Moses like whining little spoiled brats. The Bible says that God didn’t feed them at first BECAUSE He wanted them to learn that “man shall not live by bread alone (earthly provisions), but by every Word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God” (the Bible). See also Matthew 4:4 where Jesus quoted Deuteronomy 8:3 to the Devil. Nothing has changed in 3,500 years. God still wants us to learn the same truths today.

Thus, your married child needs to learn to trust God. If you help your child financially, offer to pay half. It’s ok to help them, but not to the point where they expect it and you are hindering their faith in God. Each situation is different and nothing is set in stone except what God has commanded. Parents are prohibited from meddling in the marriage problems of their children. If you want to give advice, then it should be in love, and from the standpoint that you’re NOT taking sides. A wife should never be allowed to move back home with mama. If you allow it, you’re ruining a marriage.

There many parents in America that don’t care what god has to say in a nation where 53 million mothers have decided to allow the life of their own precious child to be taken in a brutal abortion is not surprising that many of those same women would interfere in the lives of their sons and daughters in a nation where same sex marriages are ti been legalized in New York and president Blahh Kuhl Bohman JIS stated that he personally believe same sex couples ought to be allowed to marry and where same sex marriage due to proposition eight will likely become the law of the land in the year 2012 when the Supreme Court WOEL Zanetta it certainly is not surprising that parents would interfere in the lives of their children as well as urges are being destroyed by Welle intended parents interfering in the marriages of their children

When your child who is married gets into an argument mom and dad you need to stay out. Parents need to learn to allow their children to make mistakes. The worst thing you can do for a young baby is to catch them every time they fall and be there to baby them. Grandparents learn because it’s their second time around parents make mistakes for the first time that’s why it’s often said that grandparents make better parents because they’ve learned from their mistakes grandparents are not as likely to pick up the baby every time they fall down in order for baby to learn to walk into a stand on their own it’s important that a child learn to fall down that’s not to say that a child should be allowed in an unsafe circumstance not all it just means that a child needs to learn to fall down and to get back up you can learn to walk into first learn the Coghlan and you can learn to crawl until ENDA fall down.

Young couples are going to have marriage problems.  It’s just part of life. Parents need to understand this. Twoedged need to remember that they had problems burly and their marriage, which hopefully have been lessened over the years. It’s time in America for parents to bot out of their children’s business the day your child got married, they would no longer your business. What goes on in your child’s marriage is none of your business! If your child is having financial troubles good they need to learn to trust god young married couples need to learn to fall down just as the baby needs to learn to fall down they need to learn to get back up your children are never did learn to trust god if you’re always there to hold their hand payin their bills fix what’s broken in Mitter needs. You’re married children need to learn to trust god.


One of the things that missionaries are taught is not to me all the needs of the people are trying to help. The people in the people that you’re trying to help me to learn to trust god. If you always meet their needs them there to depend upon yuan Studd of god to meet their needs. One day when you’re gone and you’re not there to meet the needs of those people, the NDE Arggghhh going to fall by the wayside because you never taught them to trust and rely upon got to meet their needs. In the same way young couples when they get married they need to learn through their struggles to trust god.  What you need to teach them as a parent or Zin ENN law is to trust god. If your child is having trouble and their marriage teach them to trust god teach them to turn to the scriptures hopefully you’re leading them by example in your own life by obeying the Bible and pleasing the lord Jesus Christ with your own life.


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A Wife's Disobedience is Feminism

       Please understand that I don't condemn anyone, for the Bible condemns all of us as guilty, dirty, rotten, hell-deserving sinners. My salvation solely rests in Christ's righteousness, because of the precious blood that He gave for our sins. My intention is not to be unkind; but rather, to encourage women to get the word "divorce" out of their vocabulary, and to be the HELP MEET to their husband that God meant for them to be. Genesis 2:18, "And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him."




Never before has feminism been so strong in America. In the 1960's, the clash between feminism and mainstream society was much more obvious because America still had some decency back then. Today, feminism is widely accepted as the norm, and many women who are feminists don't realize they are feminists. Feminism is rooted in rebellion. Feminism loathes the idea of a wife obeying, or submitting, to her husbands authority. 

As do abortions, who grasp for the coat-hanger-abortion-in-the-back-alley bit (not one case has ever been documented), so do feminists attempt to justify rebellion and divorce by using extremes.

"She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life." —Proverb 31:12

Women and Children First—Men Drown!

The tired husband

When the Titanic ship sunk, only women and children were permitted into the few lifeboats they had. Of course, this was the right thing to do.

American society today is also a sinking ship, and it's the same scenario all over—there are places for women and children to go for assistance, but no place to go for tired men. It's not that there's a shortage of lifeboats (resources); but rather, the feminist agenda doesn't take into consideration that husbands and fathers also get burned out and tired. Feminism couldn't care less about the man. When a wife gets tired, she runs to a government-sponsored shelter; but where is a husband to go when he gets tired? It's back-to-work or else the bills don't get paid.

It just bothers me that a wife can skip-out and run to some shelter when she gets tired; but husbands do not have that convenience when life overwhelms them. I simply think it has become too easy in America for women to quit. Judges grant divorces too easily. Women know there's a place they can go when they feel like abandoning their husband. But what is a husband to do?

Modern American society is corrupt, morally, and in so many other ways. Jesus taught that a house divided cannot stand (Mark 3:24). America is certainly a divided nation concerning nearly everything. This is deliberate, which is why we see a change from Republican to Democrat and then back to Republican every few years. It keeps the American public divided and vulnerable. There's not a dime's difference between the two political groups.

Likewise, feminism has divided America's homes, causing the divorce rate to skyrocket. There is a demonic agenda at work in America to destroy its families...

Men are Abusers, Women are Victims, Children are Ours

Most Department of Social Services (DSS) agents actually believe that children should belong to the state, and that parents are evil. Their motto could be:


This changes only if the woman will not become a victim for them, or if the man feminizes himself properly. If you play the victim (even a male victim), and you "need" them, they will work with you. If you keep your dignity and independence (even if you are a woman), then you must be crushed. Victims thrive in their perverse world. Independent people who do not need them have their children taken away.

Kid-less, Clueless

Many DSS agents do not have children of their own, and do not understand that families go through some bad patches once in a while, and just have to be given some room to work it out. The DSS agent, upon hearing from one of their police-state snitches, will swoop in like a vulture, and steal your children. No mercy. No explanations.

They will, without a pang of conscience, traumatize your children by prying their little fingers off your legs, as they wail and cry, and sticking them in their car, maybe never to be seen by you again. Or rip your children, screaming and panicked, from your arms, while sneering about what an abuser you are. Paul the Apostle nailed them, when he called such people, "senseless, faithless, heartless, ruthless." (Romans 1:31).

Then, after ruining your whole life by taking your kids, DSS agents actually wonder why you don't warm up to them, and don't want to work with them. It's as though they had punched you in the nose, and then wonder why you bleed.

Children Must Be Taken From Families!

Most DSS agents are either classic Fascists or Marxists, which means they believe children belong to the state. You get to spawn, feed and clothe them, but then the state must educate them, train them to be wards of the state, and take them if you mess up. They believe the state is god, and support its domination in all spheres of life. They believe that rights derive from government authority, not from God, and so they resent all authority which does not acknowledge that. If you are religious, they will likely show a terrible bias against you because of it. They hate family autonomy, parental authority, home schoolers, and church authority.

This is not an exaggeration. Dr. Mary Jo Bane, Clinton's Assistant Secretary of Administration for Children and Families in the Department of Health and Human Services, said: "If we want to talk about equality of opportunity for children, then the fact that children are raised in families means there's no equality . . . In order to raise children with equality, we must take them away from families and communally raise them." Her federal department is in charge of the national effort to mold state DSS departments into their image.

That is what the communists believe. The following statement issued at a congress of Russian Communist Party educators in 1918 sounds like the credo of the modern DSS agent: "We must remove the children from the crude influence of their families. We must take them over and, to speak frankly, nationalize them." The Communist Manifesto, written by Karl Marx, called for the "abolition of the family." The DSS agents have read that book, and they are coming for your children.

SOURCE: MassOutrage | Department of Social Services' Dirty Tricks


Do Your Work Ladies

No husband should have to beg and plead for his wife to do her job around the house. If a wife fails in her responsibilities, there's not much a husband can do about it. It's not like working a job where you can get written-up or fired for poor work performance. Certainly, a husband should be loving and understanding; however, what can he do if his wife shirks off her responsibilities? Society's answer is a psychiatrist and drugs, drugs, drugs.

"Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands" Proverb 14:1.

Most husbands never get a break. Even if his wife skips town, he still has to go to work. He still has to pay the bills. He still has to be a father. He still has to deal with all the problems. Where are the shelters for men? Where can a tired husband run to for a break? What if the husband abandoned his wife, and didn't call her for weeks at a time, and didn't go to work or pay the bills? 

Do your work ladies. Please don't cause unnecessary grief for your man. It's tough enough these days, especially in the heathen workplace. There's nothing worse than for a man to spend all day working in a hellhole, and then come home to another one.

"She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life." —Proverb 31:12

She Maketh Ashamed

"A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones." —Proverb 12:4

What makes a husband ashamed of his wife? A wife that doesn't monitor her children while he is at work. A wife that criticizes her husband to others. A wife that steals money from her husband. A wife that lies to her husband. A wife that gossips. A wife that complains all the time. A mother that pays her children to lie to their father. A mother that allows her children to live in unsanitary conditions. A mother who doesn't care about her children's education. An irresponsible wife maketh her husband ashamed.

And if you really want to make your husband ashamed, and become the rottenness of his bones, divorce him. Drag him through court, cost him tens-of-thousands for an attorney, rob his pension, and force him to support your lazy hide.

The Apostle Paul stated in 1st Timothy 5:14...

"I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully." —1st Timothy 5:14

Remember, the most damaging gossip is true gossip. The Bible teaches in Proverb 11:9, “An hypocrite with his mouth destroyeth his neighbour...” Some people are hateful, malicious and rotten, searching and looking for one's sins so they can parade them publicly to destroy that person. I don't condemn anyone on my website, for the Bible condemns all of us as guilty, dirty, rotten, hell-deserving sinners. I certainly don't go looking for anyone personal sins, God forbid. I expose the unfruitful works of darkness as Ephesians 5:11 commands.

A know a woman who called the police on her husband, because she wouldn't clean the house and he was upset with her. They broke the poor guy's front door down and took him away. She did woeful evil toward her husband.

"She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life." —Proverb 31:12


I wrote this article because many so-called "Christian" wives are feminists and don't even know it. If you continually cause your husband grief and reproach, abandoning him, embarrassing him, hiding things from him, and lying to him—then you are a feminist. The feminist does her husband evil; but the Christian woman does her husband good. This is what Proverb 31:12 teaches.

"Rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft..." (1st Samuel 15:23). America is a feminist nation, where Christian wives only obey their husbands when they feel like it. Obedience should not be a novelty ladies. Many wives are Christian, but only up to a point. It shouldn't be that way. God expects wives to obey their husbands all the time. Marriage is more like a game to American women, where you can quit the game anytime if it's not going your way. This is not Biblical Christianity.

What type of wife are you?

"She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life." —Proverb 31:12