A Wife's Disobedience is Feminism
I'm probably going to make some women angry; BUT, what needs to be said, needs to be said. Never before has feminism been so strong in America. In the 1960's, the clash between feminism and mainstream society was much more obvious because America still had some decency back then. Today, feminism is widely accepted as the norm, and most women who are feminists don't realize that they are feminists. I'm going to shock some of you ladies by saying that you are a feminist if you willfully disobey your husband. That's the core mentality of feminism ... "why should I obey my husband?" Feminism loathes the idea of a wife obeying, or submitting, to her husbands authority. Their quick and often defense is spousal abuse, which is often the result of a wife's feminist attitude. I'm not condoning domestic violence, I'm just saying that a wife's feminist (rebellious) attitude will often make her husband angry. Feminists, like abortionists, try to justify their sins by shifting the blame through situation ethics ... what about rape? ... what about incest? ... what about ___? The feminist wife tries to justify her lying, conniving, disobedience, and laziness in the home by blaming the husband for her sinful lack of responsibility.
"She will
do him good and not evil all the days of her life." -Proverb 31:12
A Mother Pays Her Children to Lie to Their Father!
I know a woman who literally paid her children to lie to their father. She had gone through his wallet, searching for something. When they husband found his wallet disturbed, he immediately asked his wife and kids who had gone in his wallet. While the husband's back was turned in the next room, the wife paid her youngest daughter $5 to confess to something she didn't do, going into dad's wallet. Several months later, the father found out that it was the mother who had deceitfully gone through his wallet; but she lied for fear of getting into trouble. So the daughter was spanked and disciplined for a wrong she hadn't committed. Can you imagine a wife assassinating her own child's character just to save herself from getting in trouble? Folks, there is NO provision in the Bible to lie if your afraid. If a wife is so afraid of her husband that she has to start paying her children to lie, then there is no marriage relationship. A wife who lies to her husband, for whatever reason, is undermining her marriage. This mother does not love her children ... "A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it..." -Proverb 26:28. This woman's daughter was punished because of the mother's deceit and lying tongue. I just can't understand how any so-called "Christian" mother could stoop so low as to pay her own children to lie to their father. It is wickedness. The wife shouldn't have been deceitfully going through her husband's wallet in the first place. One sin often leads to many more sins.
"She will
do him good and not evil all the days of her life." -Proverb 31:12
Shelters are Often a Refuge for Irresponsible Wives and Mothers
I
know a woman who abandons her husband frequently. When the going gets
tough in her marriage, she leaves her post, and skips town. It's easy
for wives to do because there are thousands of women's shelters all across
America. She doesn't call her husband for weeks at a time, and he has no
idea where she's at. She demonizes him on the phone, blaming him for her
own lack of responsibility as a mother and a wife. She won't clean the
house when she is home. She won't take care of the kids. She
doesn't care about the kid's schoolwork. She doesn't care about the
kid's nutrition. She lies to her husband, sneaks behind his back,
deceiving him. In fact, her husband had to place a lock on the mailbox
to prevent his wife from handling the mail. Why? Because she would
hide the bills from him, or lose them, and then he'd find threatening letters
from collection agencies the next time she abandoned him. She does him
evil.
Now, I understand that some husbands are abusive, and a wife certainly shouldn't be abused; BUT, in most cases, the husband gets angry because the wife is not doing her job at home, or she lied to him, or she has a rebellious attitude, or she refuses to meet his needs. It is a great evil in America, that a wife can slack off in all her responsibilities, and then when the husband gets upset, she abandons him for weeks and months at a time. What is a husband to do? He can't write her up, like a boss would at work. He can't suspend her. He can't fire her. He can take her to a dozen psychiatrists, but all they're going to do is prescribe her drugs and tell her to come back in 2-weeks. How about going to church? Sadly, many churches behave more like cults when it comes to family problems. I've seen this over and over, where the pastor treats the wife as a victim (because she appears as a sweet and innocent woman), and the husband is automatically viewed as the perpetrator, the bad guy, because he won't cooperate with these religious people tampering in his marriage. What can a husband do? He does the only thing he can, he tries to communicate with his wife, and get her to be mature enough to fulfill her responsibilities, or at least talk with him if she can't get something done. But, she won't communicate with him. Keep in mind, she doesn't work a job outside the home, she is a so-called "homemaker." In this case she is more of a home-breaker, "Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands" -Proverb 14:1.
I think, in many cases, that shelters are nothing more than an encouragement for lazy and irresponsible women to take a break, time off, and abandon their families; BUT, that poor husband never gets a break, he still has to go to work, he still has to pay the bills, he still has to be a father (and now a mother), he still has to deal with all the problems, while his wife takes an UNDESERVED break. It is an evil in America. Where are the shelters for men? Where can a tired husband run to for a break? What if the husband abandoned his wife, and didn't call her for weeks at a time, and didn't go to work or pay the bills? She'd probably divorce him! But he stays with her, and tolerates her continued abuse; BUT, she is rebellious, lazy, and irresponsible.
"She will do
him good and not evil all the days of her life." -Proverb 31:12
The Wife That makes Her Husband Ashamed to Be married to Her
A wife that doesn't monitor her children while the husband is at work, a wife that criticizes her husband to others, a wife that steals money from her husband, a wife that lies to her husband, a wife that gossips, a wife that complains all the time, a mother that pays her children to lie to their father, a mother that allows her children to live in unsanitary conditions, a mother who doesn't care about her children's education, a wife that spends too much money--she is like cancer slowly killing her husband and family...
"A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones." -Proverb 12:4
A wife that makes her husband ashamed is like terminal cancer. The Apostle Paul stated in 1st Timothy 5:14...
"I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully." -1st Timothy 5:14
I know a woman who gossiped on the phone with another man's wife. The foolish wife shared some personal information about her husband, something that he would never want anyone to know. It cost that husband his best friend. That same wife, with her gossiping snake-tongue, caused her husband great embarrassment when someone he greatly admired assassinated his character publicly with the personal information his wife provided. That man's wife is a fool. She gets on the phone whenever she feels lonely or distraught, and hurts and discredits her husband. Remember, the most damaging gossip is true gossip.
A know a woman who called the police on her husband because she wouldn't clean the house, and he was upset with her. A "friend" from church had told her to lie to the police, otherwise they wouldn't do anything. So the rebellious and evil wife lied to the police, claiming that her husband had threatened her with a deadly weapon. They broke the poor guys front door down and took him away. What a horrible wife! She did her husband great evil.
"She will do
him good and not evil all the days of her life." -Proverb 31:12
Conclusion
I wrote this article because many so-called "Christian" wives are feminists and don't even know it. If you continually cause your husband grief and reproach, abandoning him, embarrassing him, hiding things from him, and lying to him--then you are a feminist. The feminist does her husband evil; BUT, the godly woman does her husband good. If you're upset from reading this article, then you're probably a feminist. With a feminist, everything must be 50/50. I can hear you now, "Well, what about this?, and what about that?, etc, etc, etc..." A wife is to obey her husband, even when she's mad at him. God rejects the shallow type of Christianity, where a person acts like a Christian only when they feel like it, when the going is good; BUT, when the seas of life get rough, they abandon ship and spit in God's face. The wife who only obeys her husband part-time is a phony, a fraud, and a disgrace to the name Christian. "Rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft..." -1st Samuel 15:23. America is a feminist nation, where Christian wives only obey their husbands when they feel like it. They're Christian, but only up to a point. Marriage is more like a game to American women, where you can quit the game anytime it's not going your way. This is not Biblical Christianity.
What type of wife are you?
"She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life." -Proverb 31:12
