“And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.” —Ecclesiastes 7:26 (king Solomon)
Why So Much Divorce in America?
Do
you realize that less than one-percent of the U.S. population
divorced back in the year 1900? Recently in southern California the divorce
rate skyrocketed to 75.54 %!!!
Most of the divorces are filed
by women. Why so much
divorce today as compared to a hundred years ago? There are numerous
reasons; but primarily, television, women's liberation, feminism, greedy
lawyers and a Communist agenda to destroy America's families by rigging the
court system always in favor of divorce. Marriages don't stand a chance
plugged into mainstream society. The secret to a happy marriage is to stay
as far away from American culture as possible. I'm dead serious.
This hellhole
society in which we live today is sick, insane and perverted.
But the number one reason for the high divorce rate is stinking, rotten, selfish, ugly, PRIDE. Notice the letter “I” in the middle of PR-I-DE, and also it's the center of the ugly word S-I-N. Most people have “I” problems.
Also, part of the reason why women are more prone to quit their marriages is because daddy's spoil their little girls, and then they expect that from their husbands when they get married. Every daughter should be trained to fetch dad's slippers, get him a cold drink and wait on him hand and foot. This is what a wife ought to be doing for her husband. Today's insane society is so far from Biblical Christianity that the average woman can't even comprehend it. God hasn't changed. Men have changed.
In the old days a husband went to work and paid all the bills. The wife stayed home and sewed, cooked, did yard work, cared for the children, prepared her Sunday school lesson for her class, prepared food for the poor, et cetera. Women baked pies, entered cooking contests, shared recipes with neighbors. Since all the ladies wore dresses, were homemakers and stayed at home, it wasn't considered demeaning. In today's world it is extremely difficult for a Christian wife to stay home as a homemaker when all the other women are working factory jobs, or sitting behind a phone in an office. They are the slaves, but they don't realize it. That's heathendom. It's not God's perfect plan for a woman to answer phones all day.
I highly recommend that Christian couples move near to Amish country or out into the country into a small town, like Mount Airy, North Carolina where the Andy Griffith's show was filmed. These places are still much, much, better than living in a hellhole like Chicago or Los Angeles. Women should refuse to work. This means you can't buy all the toys that everyone lives for. You can't live for a car.
I knew a young man who went out and bought a new car. He was so proud of that car. He worked a good job as a carpenter and made decent money, but he committed himself to paying $700 per month for 6-years to pay off that SUV. What a bad decision! NEVER but a new car. The second that you drive it off the lot you lose $10,000 in value. It's one of the biggest scams in America. I never have bought a new car and NEVER WILL. If you want something bad enough, you'll find an excuse to buy it. Don't be a fool. You'd be surprised how many couples end up divorced over a new car or house that financially pressured them into divorce court.
All the talk online about which city to live in, considering schools, is insane. You are the best hope that your child has to get a decent education. Parents who don't put their kids in private schools will regret it one day. I promise you that!!! Public schools are sodomite hellholes. They'll turn you into CPS for as much as a mark on your child, or simply because they don't like you. I'm not kidding! Public school teachers are sick, perverted, evil people. Many molest the children. Many are drug-addicts. Many are nutcases!
Ok, I've told you not to buy a new car, not to go into debt, not to put your kids into public school, not to work ladies if you have children at home to raise (you raise them), et cetera. I've also told you to move away from crowded big cities. Please understand that our nation is under massive Satanic attack in hundreds of ways.
Check out this shocking documentary video titled, The Marketing Of Madness (2:57 hours exposing the psychotropic industry). Ever wonder why your doctor is always trying to prescribe you anti-depression drugs? Now you'll see the frightening reason why! I wonder how many divorces have been caused by drug reactions and mood swings? You know as well as I do that the answer is millions! Your doctor can be your worst enemy if he or she goes along with the crooked drug-industry. Watch your back Jack!
Did you know that the Rothschilds and the Rockefellers control America today? Did you know that the Rockefeller family bought up all the medical institutions to train doctors to sell drugs, and then they bought all the drug companies? They eliminated their resistance. Today's massive drug companies have virtually no enemies that can hold them accountable. When they do evil and make BILLIONS, they get sued by thousands of people and get fined for only MILLIONS by the courts. Crime does pay!!! If you could steal millions-of-dollars and only have to pay thousands-of-dollars in court to be cleared, you'd do it all day if you were a dishonest person. There is so much lying and deception these days.
I'm teaching you that there a ton of things attacking your marriage and family. I want you to be happy in the Lord. I want your marriage to survive. I want you husband happy, so you can be happy. I want your wife happy, so you can have peace in your life. I've made a lot of stupid mistake in marriage. I know what I'm talking about. You and your wife ought to be best of friends. If you're not, something is very wrong.
I feel sorry for a man who plays his musical instrument, knowing that his wife is listening, and he's playing every note to speak to her heart; but she's on cloud 9 and couldn't care less. She hasn't figured out that her husband is playing for her, hoping and desiring for her to compliment his music and say "I love you too" as she hears the music. So many women are selfish idiots. Then when their husband gets upset or is cold toward them, they get mad. There's nothing worse than a marriage where two people just live together. I feel sorry for a man who goes to work everyday with a lousy lunch, bologna or something; while the guy next to him is eating homemade meals. I would be ashamed to be a wife and not provide the best lunch possible for my husband. It's sad when a husband prefers to buy a store-bought TV dinner instead of risking what his wife may prepare for him (or not prepare). Do you know that everything I just mentioned boils down to CARING!!!
Divorce happens because someone(s) doesn't care anymore, or never did care. Couples marry for the wrong reasons with stars in their eyes. After5-6 years depression sets in, realizing that you are unhappy being married to someone who just doesn't care about anything. There's no feeling as lonely as being married to someone who doesn't care enough to clean the house, take care of the kids, or even tell the truth. A marriage cannot thrive on lies, deception, fear, gossip and failure to perform one's duties.
A marriage cannot survive treason from within. An outside influence will blow a marriage apart faster than anything. If you're struggling in your marriage, there is no magic pill. It's not easy for anyone. Divorce is probably inevitable if your spouse is a dangerous sponge in her mind. Listening to marriage meddlers is dangerous. A wife who goes to a shelter is evidencing that she doesn't know how to deal with her problems. Divorce is likely coming soon. If that's you, find a local church and get involved quickly. Hopefully the wife won't go crying on people's shoulders and dragging everyone into the marriage. This is why some men won't go to church with their wives, that is, because churches have a bad reputation for ruining marriages instead of building them.
NEVER meddle in someone else's marriage unless you're going to remain neutral and help them BOTH equally in the Lord. Many young men who are struggling just need a friend to trust and lean upon for strength. Young guys are proud and only an idiot would fail to understand that. I'd leave a note with a fruit basket at the husband's door if I were someone wanting to help. I would let the husband know that I am neutral and don't take sides. I would provide a number to call and offer to be a friend. I would treat the couple as ONE FLESH (because that's how God has made them). God sees them as one.
