It's not where you're at in life that determines how good of a Christian you are; but rather, how far you've come in your life. Christian A came from a good home, with good parents and went to a Christian school. Christian B grew up in a bad home, with uncaring parents and went to a public school. Christian A would never even think of smoking a cigarette, drinking a beer or uttering a curse word. However, Christian B recently drank a beer, smoked a cigarette and said a curse word. Yet Christian B is the better Christian.
How can the Christian who recently smoked a cigarette, drank a beer and said a curse word be the better Christian? It's because he or she came down a much farther path in life, a rougher path. It's a miracle that Christian B is even saved, considering the horrible circumstances they've endured throughout their life. Christian A would never even think of smoking a cigarette, drinking a beer or saying a curse word; yet Christian A has not come as far as they should have with all the opportunities afforded to them in life. Christian B has struggled throughout life, and although still has some sinful faults, is actually a better Christian than Christian A, because they came much further to the point of where they're now at in life.
So you see, no one can really judge a person based upon observation, because you have no idea what kind of life they've had. You don't know what they've been through. Certainly, we should take a Biblical stand for God against those who publicly promote sin and attempt to legitimize evil. However, I do not judge them as far as where they're at in life. Only God knows their heart. God is the only true Lawgiver and Judge (James 4:12).
Remember, a hypocrite is not a person who does wrong, that's called being “a sinner.” A hypocrite is someone who views another person as being a worse sinner than them self, because we are all equally guilty in God's eyes (James 2:10).
The best Christians often feel like the worst, because they are closer to the Lord and see their own faults; whereas those who are farther away from God are blinded to their own faults, wallowing like pigs in their own sinful pride. There are two types of people in this world: those who try to live right, and those who don't. You'll find both groups of people amongst the saved and unsaved. As ironic as it may seem, there are unsaved people who try to live right, and born-again believers who don't. The reason is because eternal life is not conditioned upon one's own self-righteousness; but rather, upon the righteousness of Jesus Christ, which is solely by faith in Him.
Thus, there will be believers in Heaven, who will receive no rewards because they failed to live right here on earth (1st Corinthians 3:15); and yet there will be unsaved people, who lived honorable and decent lives here on earth, who will be cast into the Lake of Fire forever (Matthew 7:21-23). Salvation is not by works of self-righteousness; but rather, by faith alone in “Him that justifieth the ungodly” (Romans 4:5). We are all ungodly in God's eyes. If you think otherwise, you are still in your sins and need to repent toward God (1st John 1:8).
The best Christian visiting my ministry may have recently smoked a cigarette, drank a beer or said a curse word. Others, who would never do such things, have come down an easier path in life and ought to be doing so much more for God. Perhaps you have been through hell on earth, and are fortunate to even be alive. So, whoever you may be, I do not judge anyone. I encourage you to move forward for God. Jesus always said the same thing when He forgave and healed the misfortunate... “Go, and sin no more” (John 8:11). Jesus didn't browbeat them over their past mistakes, nor condemn them to Hell because of their sins. It was the self-righteous crowd that Jesus rebuked (Matthew 5:20).
So don't allow people to discourage you to quit because you are not everything they think you should be. God is your judge, not people. As the chart I made shows, it's not where you're at in life that determines how good of a Christian you are; but rather, how far you've come along the road to where you're at. God looks at the big picture; whereas people misjudge only by what they see. May we all keep our eyes on Jesus, Who will be our eternal Judge (John 5:22).
Isaiah 51:7, “Hearken unto me, ye that know righteousness, the people in whose heart is my law; fear ye not the reproach of men, neither be ye afraid of their revilings.”
